Hello,
I'm new to this and this is my first post - so be kind.
I've seen a few ruthless responses on here to other posts which has made me put off posting for a while. But I'm at a weak point, currently my beautiful baby is not sleeping that well 😫 which obviously means neither am I.
I suppose we all need brutal honesty sometimes and this platform can provide us with the confidence to tell someone straight.
So here goes; I've not long had a baby who I absolutely adore as does my husband. However I am really struggling with one totally ridiculous feeling. I have gone from being quite a selfish person who only really ever did what I wanted, when I wanted. Who also demanded that her husband gave her a lot of fussing - 'needy' as he would say. But who doesn't love a cuddle on the sofa........so what if it's when some really
important sporting event is at its critical peak. I want a cuddle NOW!!
However since my baby has arrived ALL the attention is on him. I struggle with no one wanting to see me, no one wanting to talk to me about anything apart from him, my husband doesn't appear to want to spend time with me or give me fussing ( needy cow again ).
I just want to know from others whether I am alone here and a total selfish cow or if others struggled going from the precious pregnant angel who everyone fussed over to, a fat oaf with tits by her belly button sat in the corner, that no one makes eye contact with for fear of unleashing the hormonal psychopath.
Feedback welcomed - be nice it is Christmas after all
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Henrys26mummy · 13/12/2017 01:08
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