I’m a single parent to 2 DCs, 3yo DS and 7yo DD. I have raised DD from day one alone, DS is from my failed marriage and sees his father regularly.
My DD is a wonderful, clever and mostly kind little girl. She’s very mature for her age and emotionally very intelligent. Everyone that meets her tells me what a credit she is to me, what a lovely child she is, so polite etc.
I love her more than I can express on here... however I’m currently finding her company incredibly annoying. She ramlbes on and on about inane things when I’m extremely busy e.g. cooking/ Working/ on an important phone call. Honestly I’m not exaggerating, she never shuts up.
She is not being very pleasant to her little brother at times, he only has to touch something and she jumps down his throat and screeches in an awful high-pitched voice. She’s incredibly dramatic and whines in a voice that feels like it’s penetrating my brain.
She’s either against physical affection at all or she’s very invasive of my personal space e.g putting her hands all over my face and eyes which I really find annoying.
She is very bright and is aware she is but she’s going through a stage where she always has to be right. She’ll ask me a question, I’ll answer and then she’ll tell me how I’m wrong. “Do you think this colour is pink or purple?” “Hmmm I think more purple”... “No, it’s actually pink, can’t you see that?”
It makes me want to bang my head against the wall.
There are times I’m relieved when she goes to bed because I’m exhausted. Then I feel terrible because I’m all she has and I love her so much, but she’s driving me nuts!!!
I know these are all normal behaviours for a 7yo but I don’t have anyone IRL who has kids the same age that I can vent to and get perspective, my friends children are all babies so they don’t get it.
I’m finding myself extremely irritated with her at times, like she’s winding me up and then I snap at her.
I absolutely adore her and I don’t want to be like this with her but at times I feel I can’t help it.
How can I stay calm and patient with her? I don’t want to be a shouty grumpy Mum and I feel like I’m failing her
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Struggling with 7 yr old
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Winosaurus · 03/12/2017 08:05
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