Hi. I'm hoping someone can help with some advice on how I can deal with this. My 7 year old DS has had a problem with wetting himself for years and I just don't know what to do now. He goes for weeks and months with no accidents at all but then he goes through phases of wetting himself on a daily basis (sometimes multiple times) and this lasts for a few weeks. This current phase has lasted now for about 4 weeks and I could cry with frustration. My parental instincts tell me it's not a medical issue as it doesn't happen all the time. I think it's behavioural-he's having too good a time to stop what he's doing and go to the toilet.
I've tried everything to deal with this-
Saying nothing and quietly help him get changed. Didn't work
Giving him an incentive to stay dry-play date/day trip with friends. Didn't work
Make him put his clothes in the washing machine and go upstairs to get changed. Doesn't work
I called the ERIC helpline and they were a great help and advised me to help him increase his fluid intake. Doesn't work.
I've dipped his urine and there's no infection. He's usually dry in bed and only has a couple of accidents a year.
Tonight when he came home from school his pants were soaking wet, he smelled of urine and he has a rash in between his legs.
I said tonight he had a few days to try and help himself. If he doesn't he will be grounded which is his worst fear! I've never grounded him before but I can't believe he's 7 and still regularly wetting himself so I feel I need to try something drastic. I don't want him to be picked on at school because of this. Plus I need to turn down playdates after school as I don't know if he'll be wet or dry when his friends' mums pick him up. Has anyone else gone through this and have any words of wisdom?
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End of my tether with 7 year old wetting himself
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Wellhellothere1 · 27/11/2017 20:59
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