We moved area a couple of months ago with 4 DCs. Three younger ones all doing fine and settled in really well at school. DS11 is really struggling with friendships and today told me he hasn't got any friends, all the kids have been mean to him all day and he wishes he was back at his old school. I have no idea how to help him. He wasn't all that happy at his previous school and struggled with friendships there for the last couple of years. I'd really hoped this would be a great fresh start. I do know that he can actually be quite irritating at home and always has to have the last word, makes little comments about everything and corrects people constantly. He's told me a couple of times he's told the teacher about something another child has done and I've said maybe it wasn't a good idea to say that in front of the whole class -mind your own business and no wonder everyone thinks you're bloody annoying- He can also be really lovely and has a lot going on at home with autistic siblings, he's very sweet and sensitive. I know his confidence needs a boost and feel awful that we've probably really dented his confidence by telling him off for all the little annoying comments all the fucking time. So what do we do now? We have 8 more months of year 6 and he's so unhappy. He's due to start secondary next year and I can't imagine him having the confidence to go and make friends.
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