Hi all,
I am a mum to a beautiful, healthy 8 month old, work full time and am now finding it really hard to cope, I feel like I could burst into tears at any time.
I work from home 2/3 days a week, at the office the rest of the days - whilst I am very happy to see my baby as much as I can, it is very tiresome to work and look after him, and I just feel like I fail epically at everything (and don't even get me started on house stuff).
I never really felt anxious before, but now it is like a constant. I think DS is going through a sleep regression too, which doesn't help, but whilst I try to remain strong and upbeat on the outside, I feel like a huge fraud and a mess on the inside. I keep telling myself it is a phase that will go by but it is hard to listen to my own words; I have spoken to my partner and family and whilst they all say the "right things", I don't feel like they actually understand me at all, which leaves me feeling pretty lonely and misunderstood.
Have any of you gone through similar things and would you have any advice? I know this parenting thing isn't easy but feel so crappy about not being happy 100% of the time and worry that if I don't get it together, my son or my relationship will suffer.
Thank you all, it is great to have a platform where to be totally open and honest and, hopefully, understood xx
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FS86 · 19/09/2017 16:23
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