It is with regret, fear and worry that I found out my 9 year old DS has been engaging in sexual behaviour/acts/abuse towards my two younger children (4 and 5) These were serious and also coercion involved. I made a safeguarding referral myself and social workers are saying the children are all likely to be placed on a children at risk plan. I am mortified. DS9 is currently with Grandparents but will need to come home soon. Myself and their father recently split up and I have very little support from him (5 DC) and the relationship is tense. I have also had anxiety which is under control. I feel I am to blame for this for not picking up on this. I am mortified and wondered what the process will involve? How long will it be for? Will be children be removed? The SW said very unlikely to be removed but there is still a huge fear in my mind. DS9 said he learnt about this type of behaviour through experimenting with other children in the neighbourhood but the SW wants to check that he himself hasn't been a victim. Does anyone have any advice or experiences?
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