My DS is 3 years old at the end of the week.
With everyone else (nursery, grandmother, friends, people on street) he is perfectly behaved. Everyone who knows him says how friendly and confident he is, he will cuddle anyone he meets, often sings them a nursery rhyme or tells them he loves them.
With me he is completely different. Every morning he screams until my mum comes downstairs (we live with her) shouting he doesn't love me, "I don't like you here" "I don't want you mummy go away" "don't play me". Then as soon as my mum or his sister come down he runs up to them with a huge cuddle and smile.
At the dinner table he shouts "don't sit me" if I sit near his chair and asks to nestle in to my mum or whoever is there. When we go out he is absolutely fine until I have to hold his hand or look after him.
Yesterday we had friends over and the 9 year old who was playing with them got very distressed as my boy suddenly started screaming at me "don't join in mummy go away, I don't want you, I don't love you". It went on for about half an hour. This was because I sat down next to them playing his train set.
When we go out people are often amazed how he suddenly starts screaming at me and behaving completely differently.
His sister also favours other company but not so blatantly. I've tried ignoring it, saying it's not nice, being firm, counting, taking to quiet room, one-to-one outings, lots of hands on play which gets rejected. I'm so upset because he adores anyone but me. I know the parent is there for the child and not the other way around. But I still wish I could have a good relationship with my children. Has anyone got experience of this.
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Almost 3 year old well behaved with everyone else
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MummyWuks · 28/07/2017 06:36
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