Dh and I separated 2 and a half years ago, he see's them once a week (at the weekend) for 5 hours, never has them over night and no extra in the holidays.
Dd's are now 13 and 11, my youngest has Autism, both dd's get on really well, never argue and when at home they please themselves in their rooms and I hardly see them unless we go out. Eldest is very sensible, has a mobile phone to contact me and knows what to do in an emergency.
I told ex that I was planning to leave them on their own for 3 hours twice a week during the holidays so I can go to work and he went ballistic at me saying they are too young to be left alone. He hasn't offered to help with childcare and I can't find anywhere local that will take dd2 due to her having autism and needing 1;1 when doing activities. I work 5 miles away from my house and can be back home fairly quickly if dd1 calls me, I am friendly with the neighbours and dd1 knows she can go there in an emergency. So is ex being unreasonable or am I?
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Ex saying the dd's are too young to be left on their own?
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Lovemusic33 · 27/07/2017 16:14
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