Hi hoping someone out there has some good advice as I'm at my wits end. I have an almost 5 week old DD who constantly wants held. I'm a single parent so I don't get a break. Literally cannot remember the last time I washed my hair.
Been trying to settle her now for over 2 hours, she finally fell asleep so laid her down and started to run a bath. Naturally she instantly woke up (this happens 9 times out of 10 when I finally get to make myself something to eat). Also she can't sleep without her dummy but she can't keep the dummy in her mouth either so wakes up every time it falls out which is every couple of minutes.
I've got a 5 year old as well and feel as if she's being pushed to the side as I'm just constantly stuck to the couch with the baby. I have good support from my mum and ex mil but both work full time so aren't always around. My mum came round today and I managed to tidy up and get washing etc done but she's off work not well at the moment so couldn't stay for long and I don't want to have to depend on her help anyway.
She's fell asleep on me while I'm typing this but I know as soon as I put her down she will wake up and then it starts all over again (bath is obviously out of the question I'm hoping I manage to grab a quick shower). I've thought about getting a baby carrier but she was a couple of weeks earlier and not even 7lb yet so unsure if she'd be too small?
I hope I don't come across as whiny I absolutely adore her and am grateful to have 2 beautiful girls but being on my own with 2 is so much harder than I expected. I don't even know really what advice I'm looking for I just had to let my frustration out. I guess it would be good to hear from any other singles parents and how they cope.
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Cantthinkofaname123 · 13/06/2017 20:38
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