I have a 2.5 year old and a 10 month old. My husband has a demanding job but is thankfully very present, and does help out as much as possible but ultimately I'm at home, alone, with them all day, every day. We have no family nearby (overseas or a 7 hour car journey away), and I'm finding it all so, so tough.
The older one has always been difficult. Dreadful sleeper as a baby and now still very much needs his nap or he's a complete nightmare. The baby is much easier but will only sleep in the cot (yes great most of the time but awful if you want to go somewhere). She is going through a (protracted) phase of screaming for what seems like hours on end daily.
I feel so drained. I'm tired (baby still doesn't sleep through and both up then at 6am), I have no help, I have no one to take the load off occasionally (you know parents to drop in on etc), and I'm more of less trapped in the house by naps.
I don't know what to do.
By way of example, today: Baby fed at 4.30am, up at 6am as was her brother, she napped while I went to mass, we then went out to a little fete thing locally (got there at 10.45am), older child immediately starts acting up, whinging etc, acting tired, won't eat lunch, we decide to leave at 12.45. Both fall asleep in car (only a bloody 10 min drive). Leave ones child in car sleeping (in a drive, we can see/hear), baby immediately wakes up, screaming, won't go back to sleep. Older child wakes after 30 mins, still tired, acts up all afternoon, won't eat dinner, has to go to bed at 6pm.
We can't go anywhere at all without something like this happening. This is constant, I can't cope.
What do I do? It's just overwhelming.
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Luckystar1 · 04/06/2017 19:14
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