I think I know the answer to this but I'll ask anyway! One of my oldest friends has a daughter a year older than mine. My daughter is not allowed to hold the baby (her little sister) on her own because we feel she's too young & it's just not safe. Earlier today, we saw the friend & her daughter. Daughter was desperate to hold the baby, I said no, not on her own because she's too young & my daughter doesn't (unless we help her/hold her together) but I'd sit her next to her (& keep hold of her) which I did. Both girls played with the baby with some toys but I kept hold of her. The girl repeatedly asked if she could hold the baby because she was older than my daughter. Each time I said no & that the rule was the same for her as for my own child because I wanted the baby to be safe.
I asked my friend to hold the baby while I went to the toilet. I came back & guess who was holding the baby?! On her own! I'd made it very clear what the rules were. She looked at me (the child) & said 'my mum says I can hold the baby even if you don't'. Then kept saying to my daughter 'I held the baby & you're not allowed'
I remained calm, said the baby needed feeding, fed & then we left! I didn't say anything as don't like confrontation but I am seething! My daughter (quite rightly!) asked why her friend is allowed to hold the baby but she isn't!!!!!!
This isn't the first time this has happened but before its been toys or similar involved! Not my baby!!!
What should I do? Avoid? Say something? I'm so wound up!!
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user14809873 · 31/05/2017 20:34
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