Not quite sure how to handle this one... my brother, who has three girls, hasn't acknowledged my toddler DS's 2nd birthday. Now, sexist as it is, he's really busy and it's his SAH wife who usually handles all the gift buying in their family. We always send gifts to the kids for birthdays and Christmases - we're family! But they've not sent a card, text, gift anything for my 2yo and it's been over a month know since his birthday. TBH They're a bit rubbish at things like this - no thank you cards, often forget parents/siblings birthdays (but never their own kids' friends!) but am surprised about not marking a little one's big day as everyone always remembers theirs. I did put a photo of him on Facebook with his balloon, and my SIL wrote Happy Birthday X! So they know it's been and gone. So it's her daughter's 7th birthday in a few weeks and I'm wondering what to do... I definitely want to mark her birthday as a) it's important to do and b) not her fault her parents forgot/are too busy. My husband says I should get my toddler (well, me) to make something 'cute' and personal to send, aka don't spend the usual, don't go to too much effort but still mark it. I think I should make a point of texting her to ask what she'd like, as I'd usually do, partly in a bid to make her feel guilty I guess?! But also cos I don't want to be mean to a little girl. What do you think??
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What to do when brother / SIL 'forget' your DC's birthday?
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WowThatsDifferent · 28/05/2017 19:36
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