I have a 4yo who is generally really well behaved. Obviously she does sometimes play up but when I tell her off she gets ridiculously upset I feel guilty over it.
This morning has been really hard as the baby hasn't slept well and has been screaming his head off as he's overtired. I'm tired myself and have been trying to get baby to sleep. 4yo loves nail varnish and knows that only I can get them out and we don't do it near carpet etc. While I was busy 4yo was helping herself to icing sugar from the baking cupboard, playing with the dog's lead and getting the dog really excited then finally she went to my room and painted her nails spilling nail varnish on the carpet. I told her to stop doing each thing and after the nail varnish incident I told her to go to her room. No shouting just told her firmly. She is so so upset I don't know if I've overreacted.
It's other things too though, I've noticed that other parents let more things slide than I do whereas I'll gently correct her. Sometimes she'll do something so small and immediately say sorry and I don't know if I've drummed this into her by constantly saying she should do something this way and not that way and it makes me sad.
Am I a horrible nag who's left my 4yo scared to put a foot wrong?
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Imstickingwiththisone · 28/05/2017 10:08
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