I have a child who I've raised alone since birth. Birth father/sperm donor disappeared when I was pregnant. Haven't heard from him since & wouldn't know where to find him or how to contact him - apart from a brief call to tell me he didn't want a child with me (during pregnancy) & told me when baby was older, to explain that he didn't want child or me, I've heard nothing from him in years.
Fast forward several years, new (not so new now) relationship, wedding booked & another child. Calls him Dad. It just happened, we didn't suggest or push it.
I want my hubby to be to have parental responsibility & both children to officially be his - do we have to be married for this to happen? Considering going down the adoption route but don't know what it entails. Has anyone done this? A friend has just suggested name change by deed poll.
I want it to be official. I've read up on it, tried to make contact with social services to try & start the process (no response).
What do I need to do? Anyone been in our situation & able to offer advice. Thanks in advance
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anxiousbuthappy · 09/05/2017 22:14
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