Hi. I'm new to mums net so not sure where to post this.
I'm 30 and a first time my to a beautiful baby girl. She's 9 months old now and I've returned to work 5 weeks ago.
My issue is men.. this is so strange I know it is but I'm struggling to trust anyone apart from her dad.
I'm afraid they will hurt her sexually or abuse her. I've never been abused so I'm not sure where my fear comes from. I trust her dad completely with her but not my father or my 3 brothers. I know it's completely irrational but I'm terrified of it.
My partner's father is off work on sick at the moment and has said he will have her for 2 hours before her nan finishes work and I've been finding excuses but I'm running out of them.
I don't trust any man... My family, my husband's family... none apart from her dad. I don't even trust my dad and I don't know why as I know he's noy like that I'm just not willing to risk it.
Has anyone got any ideas why this is or goig through something similar?
Thanks :-)
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Struggling to trust baby with men
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Cherryj86 · 25/04/2017 17:17
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