We have one dc and expecting dc2. Dh would like to work in Germany for a few months during my mat leave. Dc1 will be about 2 when/if we go. I'm in 2 minds. Obviously it is an exciting opportunity we might not get again. On the other hand it might just be really unsettling for dc1. She really follows routines, is happy at nursery, likes the swimming pool, library, playground, going to the shop etc. Also from my point of view I don't speak German, don't have friends there. Am already pretty nervous about coping with new baby as finding the toddler stage harder than newborn - tantrums stress me out so much and think we were relatively lucky with dc1 as she slept relatively well - what if next baby is a nightmare and she gets totally stressed out by the move and turns into tantrumming toddler from hell.
Would be interested to hear if anyone else has done something similar and how it went.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
For free parenting resources please check out the Early Years Alliance's Family Corner.
Parenting
Moving a toddler abroad
7 replies
penguinpurple · 23/04/2017 15:14
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.