My daughter is 25 and has a son who is now 5. I told her a while ago about the abuse I suffered as a child at the hands of my mother after finding out that my grandson is under her care post school and some evenings. My daughters reaction was total dismissal of what I told her. I explained in more detail that it was serious emotional, physical and sexual abuse and that it could not be dismissed. Her reply was that she wants her son to have contact with his great grandmother. I could not understand her stance on this and decided to report my concerns to Social Services. My report was taken seriously and I understand that the family are under "watch". Unfortunately now my daughter won't speak to me because of the "shit storm" I created. I'm beside myself with anxiety because as I now don't have contact with my daughter, I no longer have contact with my grandson. All I was trying to do was ensure my grandsons safety, but now I've been made to feel guilty for reporting the abuse I suffered as a child. If anyone has a similar experience or might be able to help, please let me know.
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Reported abuse to Social Services, now daughter won't speak to me
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Ajimnotabadmother · 23/04/2017 13:45
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