Just wondering if anyone has experienced this and any tips for dealing with it. My ds developed a fear of public toilets a few months ago, which I think originally stemmed from the noise of the handdryers but is now just about the toilets in general and probably a bit to do with feeling claustrophobic as well (he's upset even if the toilet has no handdryer). I have never seen him so distressed about anything else, proper traumatised sobbing and begging to be taken out. Now as soon as we are out and he feels like he's going to poo he tells me he wants to go home, and he has even started wanting not to go out at all.
I have tried putting on the hairdryer at home while he's having his nappy changed to get him used to it - this makes no difference as he has no problem with the noise of the hairdryer even though it's almost identical, so it doesn't help. I've also tried watching youtube vids of little kids messing about with handdryers which he found funny but as soon as I asked him if he wanted to go and try one he got very upset and said no. We've just avoided them altogether for several weeks but his fear seems to be getting worse not better, and he starts crying at just the mention of going to the toilet when we're out (I don't make him go but often offer when we're out, even suggest we go in to have a look at come straight back out again, but he won't go in). So we're stuck staying very close to home and going home when he needs a nappy change (not ready for potty training yet).
We are at the point where I wonder if it's better to bite the bullet and just pick him up, take him to the toilet and do the nappy regardless of how upset he is, as otherwise I feel it's only going to get worse, and I don't want to keep restricting us in where we can go for outings as that will do him no good either.
What do people think? Any ideas very much appreciated! xx
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2.5 year old terrified of public toilets
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alittlehelp · 14/04/2017 19:54
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