DS-8 has been bullied by 2 neighbourhood kids all day. For context, DS is a quiet, socially awkward boy with mild dyspraxia. He's pretty well behaved at school but can be quite challenging at home. When playing with 1 child it's fine but when the other, older child turns up inevitably they start ganging up on him. My DS isn't perfect but I've seen and heard it myself, backed up by another neighbour, and they've mouthed off to me too- no respect for other adults.
I know I can't change their behaviour but my DS just stands and takes it, or gets angry and of course that spurs them on. I was practically dragging the him in earlier but he just stood there. I've told him to walk away or tell them to shut up but he won't. He's so angry at us all the time but he cannot and will not stick up for himself. I'm not a confrontational person either so I'm not blaming him but today has been heartbreaking. It's always him getting picked on but he still wants to play with these children regardless. His self-esteem is on the floor: in his words he's not cool, scared of bees/dogs, doesn't upload videos on YouTube and nothing I say can reassure him. He's does martial arts for confidence but that's not helping either. I want him to be confident in himself and having the coping skills to shrug the teasing off. I'm really at a loss, does anyone have any advice?
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raspberryblush23 · 06/04/2017 19:03
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