So today my daughter (nearly 6) came home from school and said a boy took her glasses from her and would only give them back if she him her privates. She said she tried to snatch the glasses back but there was a bit of a kerfuffle where she felt that he was going to pull down her tights. She didn't let him but that she was scared and knew it was wrong to do that.
I work in a school and I went in very level headed, explained my concerns and stated I wanted to place a safeguarding concern about what happened to my child to ensure that there is an appropriate action plan made and that I want to place another safeguarding concern about why a 5/6year old boy feels it's ok to manipulate people into exposing themselves and then why he then tried to pull her tights down.
I know that exploring bodies is somewhat natural but I feel that this very much crosses a line - in adult terms it is coercion, manipulation and attempted sexual assault!
The headmaster seemed to brush it of as if it happens everyday and just get over it! I wanted to talk to the boys mother (I'm not confrontational btw) and talk through my concerns. I was shocked that they felt a conversatuo between two adults was a terrible idea!!
Anyway, I've gone to the LADO as I don't feel my safeguarding concerns we're dealt with.
But, am I really being unreasonable to think that this behaviour isn't normal and should not be normalised?
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Sarahrellyboo1987 · 05/04/2017 00:52
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