Hi everyone, I'm after a little bit of advice and help. As the title suggests, issues with the little one are around winding and subsequently settling him down. He is still pretty new to the world at just under 3 weeks old and I am thoroughly convinced that my wife and I are missing something...
So; the boy will feed pretty solidly (bottle-fed only) and is getting amounts usually between 70-110ml depending on how long it's been since his last feed. After he's done with drinking my wife and I will give him a couple of minutes just to make sure he's finished and then try to wind him because he guzzles. It seems to make no difference at all whether we lean him forward slightly and wind him upright, if we put him over our shoulders and pat/rub his back, if we lay him face-down over a knee, even if we keep him in his slightly-reclined-but-mostly-upright feeding position and rub little gentle circles on his stomach... he barely ever burps. He'll get out a huge one after a cycle of winding with nothing happening, trying to put him down/change position/continue feeding then he starts fussing and flailing, so we try winding again with nothing, fusses, winds with nothing, fusses, winds and burps once then done...
It's now at the point where we are even considering if we're actually causing reflux simply by trying to get burps out... if he was just doing tiny little ones or spitting up all the time then we'd say for sure, but the burps he comes out with when we do coax one out honestly gives blokes down the pub a run for their money!
All in all it's a seemingly-neverending cycle of him fussing but not actually crying, us trying to get him settled and relieve the problem, him not being able to get it out/not having anything to come out, and then fussing again when we let it be... It's frustrating as all hell and it's causing us both to only get about an hour of sleep between night-feeds and we're both starting to go a little closer to the edge of sanity than we'd like!!!
Thanks very much for any advice you can give.
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Help please: Huge troubles with winding
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Martin1987 · 18/03/2017 23:19
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