No idea if IABU but just got DD back from exH and she is, well, gross. She is 5, she is scratching her lady bits which smell foul. He hair is unwashed and her teeth look to not have been brushed (he has had her 3 days and nights) she says she hasn't brushed her teeth but she could be talking crap.
I tried to ask if she has had a bath/shower/wash with flannel and he was really umming and aaahing and then said he has no hot water so can't.
Obviously I've given her a lovely bubble bath and brushed her teeth.
Am I being OTT? I know it doesn't really matter in the long run but surely that's not good enough??
Do I do/say anything? Can I?
There is a massive backstory which clouds my judgement sometimes. I'm trying to be rational. I want to say if you don't have the facilities to look after her, then you bloody don't!
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pickachuselectricattack · 11/03/2017 19:43
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