Have two DC, 4 and 18 months old. The 4 year old is a nightmare, I can't cope with him and I'm starting to really dislike him.
He is just so naughty and rude. I set up play things and he trashes them. I cook dinner and he refuses to eat anything except pasta with tomato sauce. We go out for the day and he throws epic tantrums.
At nursery he is well behaved on the whole and does well reading and writing. Even though he isn't at school yet he is able to read very easy books and write. He is a great conversationalist but has no filter but he is empathetic and picks up on people's emotions. I asked nursery if he could be assessed for behavioural issues or if he might have special needs and they laughed and said definitely not (he does full four days).
DH is very hands on but neither of us can cope and we dread weekends. Our second DC is the total opposite and an absolute delight. He has his moments but you can reason with him or calm him down. With DC1 there is NOTHING we can do. It's making me really dislike him.
I don't know what to do. I asked my HV and she said it was normal but I don't see friends struggle in the same way we do.
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Edgeofinsane · 07/03/2017 19:32
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