Does anyone feel like they are viewed differently since having a child by OH? I feel like he loves me more/has more respect for me/views me as his family but doesn't fancy me the same way anymore. I never catch him checking me out anymore but I know he still fancies me but it's like becoming a mother has made him lose the appeal for me.
I think you should talk to him about this and find out what he actually feels. You're making an assumption about how he feels, which may not be true. Tiredness, stress and responsibility are bound to affect libido, it could be to do with those sorts of things rather than anything else.