Dd goes to bed around 8pm, and will wake at about 10 and have a breastfeed with me. Then between 10 and 5, she'll usually have 2 bottles of milk with dh, and then after 5am if she wants a feed she'll only want breastfeeding.
My hv has said today she doesn't need the milk, and we need to cut it out asap. So how do I do this? I really do not want to do cc/cio - so should dh start offering water in the bottles instead? Or water down the milk until she doesn't notice? I realise she's using having milk as her crutch to get to sleep so it has to stop as she can't fall asleep on her own, she's always fed to sleep.
My concern is that the walls are very very thin so neighbours can hear her crying at night, so if dh offers water and she starts screaming until she gets to bf with me, then the noise will cause huge problems with the neighbours.
I'd really appreciate any advise as I feel like a huge failure over this and I'm very embarrassed she's still waking so frequently.
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18 month old still having 2/3 feeds a night
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Tiredmumneedshelp · 20/02/2017 22:11
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