First time mum to two week old DS. Prior to having him, I read that book by she who shall not be named and decided I'd have my baby in a routine by six weeks.
Then he arrived.
He's (touch wood) a very easy going baby so far, sleeps well (albeit in smaller chunks than I'd like) is breast fed, with one expressed bottle a day and is happy to just gaze around when awake. Right now, the idea of forcing any kind of routine on this gorgeous little thing just feels so wrong, but I've read countless things about babies thriving on routine and knowing what's coming next and it's making me wonder whether I should try to guide him into one?
Due to age, it's more than likely he'll be our only baby, so I want to truly enjoy every minute of these early days - but am I 'making a rod for my own back'? (I fucking hate that phrase!)
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VeryNecessary · 15/02/2017 15:52
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