So this year time after time my dd has been left out of being invited to parties at school, she gets a little upset when she finds out about them as they do news time on Monday mornings and these children stand up and end up talking about their parties they have had at the weekend, there has been 10 parties we know of this year and she has been invited to 1, which she was ecstatic about spending ages picking her dress and shoes. My DD has her birthday party not too many weeks ago and she said she wanted everyone as she didn't like being left out (broke my heart a little when she said that because it made me realise she actually was upset about the other parties) so we did that and the majority came. There is 1 particular child she is close to (it always says in her homebook she has been playing with said child) tonight picked her up she looked sad waited till we got to the car which she then started crying saying this said child had been up to her today and said "Im not inviting you to my party but I got to come to yours but your not coming to mine" I am pregnant at the moment so my hormones are already on edge I felt like crying with her I explained that not everyone can go to all the parties and she said "but Mummy no one wants me at their parties I never get to go like everyone else and I really want to go to this party". What on earth can I say back as she is such a sensitive little bean as it is...surely this is denting her confidence even more now.
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