DS is 4, the last few times I have picked him up at school, more or less as soon as we get out the gate he has a massive strop. It can be about anything.
This afternoon, I needed to go to the shops and ran out of time, so picked him up and then headed to the shops. This started a strop, as the first thing he said was can we get a treat from the shops. I said no, because we were not going to that shop, just to the local one. I didn't say no to the treat just no to getting one from that particular shop.
In the middle of this, we had stopped so I could inform him, if he didn't stop then we would be going straight home, a man walked past (stranger) and said why don't you do as your told. This meant that the strop which was calming down, went straight up to epic.
We came straight back home. Calmed him down, got him a snack and started playing. He then lost a game of snap, and started again, this time, I told him to sit on the sofa to calm down, which resulted in him hitting me four times.
Now he has no tv for the day (for the hitting) and his fav toy taken off him.
I just really don't know if I am doing this all wrong and could do with some advice.
Sorry for going on but I wanted to try and get it all in.
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sobeyondthehills · 24/01/2017 17:44
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