Hi all. This is my first post, as I'm not sure what to do about my daughter. She is 5 on Friday, and naturally an introvert. She has some good friends at school, but they are pretty much all outgoing, strong personalities. My daughter can be outgoing and fun when she feels safe and comfortable in a situation, but recently the stronger characters have been dominating the play, and leaving her out. She try's to join in, but they don't notice her as much, and eventually she stops trying because they run away from her or just don't include her. They're all very little still so it's not done on purpose, but I'd like some ideas on how I can help her develop more confidence and not just sink into the background as she gets sad and lonely. I've told her to tell the others how she feels, and ask to join in, but yesterday in a play with 2 friends, they ended up focussing on each other, and she just stayed with me as she didn't feel like they wanted to play with her. I try to encourage her to find other friends if she's azt school, or find a teacher to help her join in a group but I'm not sure what else I can do... do I just let he find her own feet, or are there ways I can help her so she doesn't feel so left out? Thank you x
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Mummymusic · 04/01/2017 11:38
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