I need some advice on approaches to swearing & younger children, what to fret over, how much to dig heels in etc.
My 9 year old & 6 year old DSs are becoming more aware of swearing as a concept (? right word to use) and of specific words (fuck, shit, crap, & even motherfucker ). Learnt so far mostly at school & oldest son from one or two films & going to watch football matches.
With oldest son I've so far taken the approach of explaining that some people swear, others don't, that they will hear swearing but are not to repeat it and and places/contexts it's not ok to swear in even as adults, letting him ask questions (is x sweating, why is it swearing etc) and that it's absolutely not ok for him to swear & potential impact etc.
6 year old dropped fuck into a conversation at a play date today - I'm genuinely dismayed, didn't even realise he knew it. I went for approach of tackling it calmly once we got home, while husband then had a shout at home over it.
What's the best way to approach this at primary school age? And tips/thoughts/advice? They also have a 5 year old brother and I'd be mortified of he picked anything up.
In terms of my own use - I have a few favourites in terms of expletives but mostly just in anger, pain or jest, not in front of the kids (or own parents!), very rarely at work etc.
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nemoni · 30/12/2016 19:20
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