Hi, this is my first post so hope this is in the right place!
I just wanted some advice about how to cope with family all passing my baby around all the time. We have had family visiting on Christmas Eve, Xmas day & Boxing Day and feel like I have hardly been able to spend any time with her. If I am sat cuddling her they are always asking to hold her and if I say no they make such a big deal out of it that I then feel upset. So the next time I feel under pressure and just say yes.
I made clear when DD was born that I was happy for people to have a cuddle but that I didn't want her being passed from one person to another all the time. But the past few days they just won't listen. BIL asked to hold her and I said yes as was cleaning & tidying up. But then within 15 mins he had held her, his wife had and MIL had. This continued throughout and then towards end of the day DD was really upset and crying loads so took absolutely ages to soothe her enough that she would have a nap.
I was looking forward to Xmas, but feel like I hardly got to enjoy time with my DD. Can anyone offer advice please, I am prepared for you to say this is just how it is and I need to get on with it. Just feel so low.
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RemyRelax · 27/12/2016 14:26
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