Honestly, baby and toddler years were a breeze compared to having a 3 year old. My daughter has literally changed from a mellow and happy little girl to an absolute pain!
Several problems we are having at the moment but the main ones:
She wants to do EVERYTHING herself. Refuses help of any kind, makes loads of mess trying to do it herself but if I even go near to offer help she screams at me.
She is incredibly bossy, tells me what to do and what to say. Insists I play with her every minute of the day. If I dare try and sneak off to do something like prepare lunch then she kicks off.
Won't leave me alone for more than 5 minutes without whining for me to come and play. Only thing that works is TV but I really don't want her to watch it for more than an hour a day.
I have to constantly negotiate everything down to what colour cup she has to what clothes she wears that day and if I don't let her choose every single thing then she has a complete meltdown. It is very wearing as feel like I am treading on eggshells in case I get something "wrong"
Please tell me this is somewhat normal and I am not raising a complete brat I have tried lots of things to try and help her tackle her frustrations but nothing has worked so far. I am really not enjoying being around her at the moment and I feel really bad admitting that. Please tell me it gets better?! Also I should add, I already spend a lot of quality time with her and try and do lots of fun activities such as baking, crafts, days out and she still behaves the same. Also tried reward charts, ignoring and only praising positives, time out. None of those work.
Any words of advice?
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alwaystimeforgin · 13/12/2016 08:07
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