Hi
Looking for advice please!!
I have a DS who is 15 weeks tomorrow but was born at 38+3 (does this week early business really make any difference?!) and I am having a nightmare. She has always been alert and from what I can gather, is a "spirited" baby. This may clue you in on why I feel like I am going crazy, I have simply read too many books and sites on how to get her to sleep and I don't know whether I am the cause of sleep problems!
DS went through a phase of getting really overtired and overstimulated in the evenings and would only go to sleep if I breastfed her to that stage. This has worked until recently and she slept through the night,but in the past 2 days, this doesn't work in the day and only when she is knackered at night. Also, DS only wanted to go to bed at 10 or 11pm before but she does seem to be getting more tired earlier but won't nap properly during the day. I was conscious that this was a late bedtime so I don't know whether I have been trying to force the issue by making her sleep earlier?
Last night she woke up at 4am and then didn't go back to sleep until 6am, nighttime was the one time where I could guarantee on getting her to sleep after night feeds and now this isn't even working.
I realise that nursing her to sleep hasn't been a great idea but I would literally try anything after screaming for hours! I have read that I should wake her up just before placing DS in the crib but does this really work?
I am even at the stage of perhaps using the Ferber method as a last resort because I am so worried that these sleep habits are going to carry on as she gets older. I have no time for myself and only I can really get her to sleep which means I can't go out for more than an hour or so on my own, its really getting me down just spending hours in a darkened room trying to get her to sleep :-((
Please help and sorry if the above is garbled, no sleep! I used to have a brain!
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Harveyrabbit76 · 28/11/2016 20:41
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