Hello,
Hoping for some advice please.
I don't like the label shy or rude, but I don't know how else to put it and I don't even know if it is a problem - but it can get a bit embarrassing at times.
My lovely little (4yo) DS is so unbelievably shy when he is introduced to someone new (or someone he hasn't seen in a while). Sometimes he will curl up into a little ball, other times he will frown and scowl at them and even start crying / whinging, he will hide behind me etc. Its as if he thinks they are going to harm him, and the person(s) look at me in puzzlement when he has this reaction as its so OTT. I never know how to handle it without saying "he's shy" or telling him no need to be shy / scared, and explaining who the person is. Mostly I try to ignore, as I know the more we focus on it, the worse it gets.
Just wondering if there is some magical way to encourage DS to be a bit more confident around people, or alternatively what I should be saying at these times??
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Shy to the point of rudeness??
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BurnThePages · 16/11/2016 12:44
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