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We started training Easter this year, a couple of months before DS's third birthday.
Poos were sorted straight away. Not a problem. Wees took longer, about six weeks to reliably be dry. We'd still have the odd accident.
However since June we have been running through a cycle of a week or two dry, then three or four weeks of several accidents a day. Three or four every day for a few weeks is normal now.
I'm at my wits end. I've tried bribery big and small - chocolate buttons up to big deal day out. I've tried sanctions (thinking he was distracted by the tv or whatever), I've tried getting him to tidy up the mess himself, I've tried positivity, negativity, badgering him to go every half hour, leaving him to do it himself. Once I had to leave him wet for a while whilst we got home, but I didn't like doing it and I'd rather not use that as a training technique.
The only thing I can think of that I haven't tried is putting him back in nappies for a bit.
This pm I reminded him he needed to go. He told me he didn't and then wet himself whilst sitting on me. It made me cry, I just don't know what to do from here.
He's physically quite small from his age and still has naps. But mentally he's very sharp, understands what's happening, says he knows when he needs to go etc. He's a lovely chilled out little boy which makes me wonder if our problems are temperamental.
He does go to the loo a lot in a day but I can't tell whether he has a weak bladder or if it's just because I'm taking him so often.
He goes to pre school part time and the problems happen there too.
Can anyone make any suggestions? What have I forgotten to do? Is it time to go to the GP?
TIA if you've made it through so far - I'm desperate.
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Potty training - at wits end. Please, can anyone help me?
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justwanttoweeinpeace · 08/11/2016 19:37
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