I'm so stressed out with my DD2 who is 6 weeks old. Whilst she's beautiful and I love her, she's breaking us. She's either asleep (only really in the car or funnily enough between feeds at night) or fussing, arching her back and screeching etc. I can't do much when it's just me and hurt other than bouncing her around or when her sister is home from nursery she screams if I don't fuss her for a second whilst I prepare food or interact with DD1 and then my DD1 ends up crying because DD2 is crying. Trying to console them both is almost impossible. A couple of times I've just had to leave DD2 in her Moses basket (she's not been hungry or wet etc) and have taken DD1 off elsewhere to console her or distract her for both of our sanity. I feel so guilty, I never did this with DD1, I never had to.
It's almost impossible to keep on top of anything as DD2 really stresses my DH out in the evening as DD2 is worse when he's fussing her. It ends up with him leaving her to scream the house down and I have to finish my shower/cup of tea/hanging up clothes as he gets so frustrated he leaves her. She ends up purple from screaming which is heartbreaking. He thinks his evenings are for lying on the sofa watching tv not fussing a baby. I wish I could do that!
Apologies this is more rant than anything else, has anyone been through the same? Please tell me there's light at the end of the tunnel
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judybloomno5 · 18/10/2016 23:14
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