Yes I know this is probably the mother of First World Problems but I am drowning in toys. I have a 5 year old girl and a 18 month old boy. They are I guess very lucky kids. They are a big family and although they are not spoilt we are comfortably well off. So every birthday and Christmas they get toys. When we go on holiday they get toys. Eldest sometimes spends her pocket money on toys. Sometimes random toys from friends and family. And then there are the toys with happy meals, magazines and kinder egg (when did they stop being a very rare treat or was that just my childhood).
I am running of space. Its not like they get much time to play with them. My eldest don't get much time for toys after school and we normally go out and doo stuff at weekends or they go to see their mum. Also my little boy has plenty of toys his age but he always wants to play with what his sister is playing with. Also too many teddy bears. People get the kids bears and my daughter has acquired a large collection from my ex wife when she walked out.
So how do other people manage their toys. I don't want to get rid of these toys (apart from the ones that they have totally grown out off) as they are the kids things and people have been very generous. But there are way more toys than the kids can physically play with. So what is the etiquette of sliming down the toy collection?
Also I don't want to sound ungrateful by how do I politely reduce to toy supply from friends/family? I know people get great joy from buying them toys and I don't want to take that away from them. AIBU to try and reduce the supply.
AIBU to try and influence the type of toys? Mainly my ex's family (lovely people and love the kids) seem to think quantity over quality. They often by big toys but often not the best quality. I would prefer them to spend the same money on smaller quality toys that add to the current range of toys.
Currently literally every corner of the house has toys in. I don't mind because its the kids house and I know its a sign of happy kids. But sometimes its does feel like I am drowning.
Anyone know the feeling?
Any practical advise?
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1DAD2KIDS · 15/10/2016 17:43
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