Sooooooo EXH has bought DD a Pygmy hedgehog for her 9th birthday! I think this is a ridiculous present, he has a terrible track record with animals & loves to do things which will get a reaction. He bought DS2 a snake for his bday, in the past they've had tree frogs,lizards,tarantula. Now all dead!! She thinks it's great but she'd be just as happy with Lego tbh. I know that it's not really my problem as its not at my house I just feel strongly that live creatures are inappropriate gifts for children!!