My 2.5yr old son is being a 2 year old... I've generally used the naughty corner (supernanny style - 1 warning then in the corner for 2 minutes then hug) but this isn't working all that well anymore because my main difficulties are currently the following:
- Attention-seeking misbehaviour - if I go off and do anything other than being with him he will do something naughty to get me back again. In this situation he sees the naughty corner as a good thing because it involves me interacting with him. I try to ignore anything low level but yesterday he climbed on top of the dining table which I didn't want to ignore. On the other hand reacting to it has achieved his goal of getting my attention...
- Linked to the above I think (i.e. attention seeking) - he will ask for help with something (eg get down from a chair) then when I go to help him he will change his mind and say he doesn't want to get down. I go away again then he changes his mind and gets me back again. Repeat 500 times... It's generally with things that he genuinely can't do by himself so it's difficult to ignore...
When I say I'm going off to do something, I'm not talking anything frivolous or lengthy, just essential stuff like feeding the cat or cooking. I already sit him in front of a tv programme so I can do the final cooking of dinner as otherwise it's just not safe.
He's at nursery two days a week and with me the rest of the time.
Anyway, any tips gratefully received!