Hi all :) I am due to give birth to my son in October and I am excited! I have planned everything already. I am taking a year off my university, then going back when he is old enough to go to creche while I am at university. My partner is very keen on having his mum come to stay here for a few months to help "look after the baby" such as feeding, changing, bathing, cooking, cleaning the house... I said well she may as well take him full time then because as a Mum, that's my job! Now he said I am unreasonable and that I won't be able to handle all the responsibility while he is at work. I find that extremely offensive considering that he is my baby as well and I am more than capable of looking after him! He is just acting like a total bell-end and I don't know what to do! Am I right in refusing to have help? He said I cannot keep him wrapped in cotton wool which is a ridiculous statement because I am not! I want to do the things a mother should do but how can I bond with my son if his mum comes and stays for months on end and possibly take over my job role?
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