Feeling depressed about my DD literally liking my mil more than me or her dad, or any other family members for that matter. I find it SO embarrassing and hurtful, why can't I have a child that actually likes their mum? I really feel this is taking a toll on me.
DD is 1, mil has her 1 day a week. Mil is very full on and whenever she is around my DD she is constantly making faces, chatting to her, crawling around the floor placing chase etc, doing gambols etc. I do all of these things at home, but I think mil is constant with it which might part of the issue. She did say last week that when she has her she doesn't even get a drink all day or any food because she's constantly on the floor with DD. Sounds lovely, but just an example of how full on she is.
When DD sees her, she flaps her arms up and down so fast, screeches, smiles etc and is so excited to see her. Mil loves this and is like 'she's a grandmas girl that's for sure'. Just makes me feel so shit. It's embarrassing for me like she just isn't like that with me when they are around. I go snd pick her up from mil house and she barely looks up at me, she cannot take her eyes off mil.
Mil family are aware of how much DD loves mil and always say 'u love your granny so much don't you, your a grandmas girl etc'. I feel like they are being a little insensitive to me, because it is so clear she hates me and isn't attached to me. It makes me want to give up to be honest. I do everything with DD, play, cuddle, read, go places. But nothing compares.
I never thought that my child would so blatantly prefer somebody else to its mum. It's just an awful feeling.
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1 year old prefers gran to mummy. Feeling down.
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Ohsotired123 · 08/08/2016 19:52
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