Hi everyone really new to this and not sure if this will even post but I'll try....
Basically my life has shattered into tiny pieces tonight. My partner and I had a huge row and he basically told me how he felt about everything! I have two kids s ten year old and a four year old but the oldest kid isn't my partners... For the past few months I started to notice how much differently he treated them. Deep down I knew he loved his biological daughter more than his step daughter but it was never an issue as he never treated them differently but lately he has been very nasty to my oldest and anything she did he was going off his head she is ten and ten year olds aren't perfect but in general she is a lovely girl. I tried talking to him about it as she told me that he was making her dad the way he was acting but it would've ok for few days then back to square one so basically tonight we had a major row and I told him my children come first and I couldn't take much more of it, so he started shouting all sorts and matched straight into her room and said you have caused all this I hate you and your mum And I never want to speak to both of you again! I've never loved you and that is my daughter right there not you! My little four year old was screaming because she is such s daddy's girl as I told him to get out.!I was squealing for what he said to my ten year old and so was she. I am absolutely devastated by his comments I know it's truly over I can never be with a man who insults my children so much. We have been together 9 years I thought he loved her like his own. I'm not crying in bed after just getting the little one settled thinking what am I going to do? any advice would be appreciated as I am so ashamed to tell any my friends or family about the reasons of our separation. Thanks in advance xxx
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Myrias358 · 17/07/2016 23:44
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