She has taken a gift box in our bedroom containing shredded tissue paper and proceeded to toss it all over the room. I have asked her nicely three times to tidy it away.
I then said that if it wasn't tidied by preschool time (12.30), it'd be there for her to tidy when she gets home.
Still not put away.
I've asked again. Still not put away. Tantrum. Time out. The mess still there for her to tidy away. I've shouted. She cried. Still refused to do it. I shouted louder. She cried more. I've walked out the room and left her to it.
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Between me starting this OP and now she's calmed down, come to me and asked nicely for some help. I went in and helped, she did the majority. We sat and had a chat about choosing to make messes and how we should tidy our own messes. I've apologised for shouting and she's apologised for making a mess and refusing to tidy it.
But all can think about is how furious I was with her. And how I shouted loudly. And how shit a mother that makes me. Dh works with kids and no doubt would have handled it a million times better using whatever techniques he uses for the school kids.
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I am furious with dd, 4 1/2.
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NapQueen · 26/05/2016 10:45
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