My friends son (3.5yrs) can be so loving towards my son (18m) at times but others just very jealous which he shows by being a bit mean to him.
He's almost twice his size and will walk right up to him and basically puff his belly out in an "intimidating" manner, call him ugly, snatch toys off him, immediately try to push him out of the way so he can play on the truck or jump on a bouncy chair for example instead, just typical things like that. My friend does tell him off but has a habit of making empty threats and if he feels sorry for himself for being told off but actually shows no remorse she'll immediately shower him with love - which I get, everyone parents/disciplines differently.
But it does irritate me. A lot! At the end of the day I don't like those actions towards my baby, I can't help it! Now my LO is getting older and more independent I don't want him learning from him but I guess at the end of the day it's how I deal with it when the time arises.
Can you think of any tips we can try to curb this jealously and the way he deals with it? He is given equal love and attention by both my friend and I, and I always play and include him.
Thanks in advance.
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tips to stop 3.5 yr old friends son being mean/jealous of 18m old
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justonesherryformedicinalpurpo · 21/05/2016 21:37
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