DS1 was 19 months when DS2 arrived on the scene. I wasn't surprised to find him jealous at first and trying to climb between me and the baby when I was feeding - however that did ease over time and I suppose I just thought as the baby got more interactive DS1 would warm to him. We're now 4.5 months on and that hasn't happened. He is still jealous and he completely ignores DS2's very existence. He refuses to look at him, hug him, or say his name (though his nursery minders tell me he says it to them).
Is there anything I can do to help their relationship? I've googled of course but the advice seems to relate to an older toddler. DS1 will be 2 in a few weeks and while he's developmentally fine he's by no means advanced so we still struggle with communication on anything other than the day-to-day requests for biscuits and peppa etc - so having a heart to heart about how we still love him just won't work!
He goes to nursery 3 days a week (he was in it full-time before I was on maternity leave) and on his days off we go to toddler groups and do activities that are very focused on him. So he is not starved of attention. I'm worried things will get worse once DS2 gets moving and starts getting interested in toys!
Has anyone been in a similar situation and can you offer any words of wisdom?
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Toddler's continued jealousy of new baby
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Mawsymoo · 15/05/2016 22:56
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