I have 2 gorgeous children aged 3.5 and 2, and am seriously thinking about having a third. I'm a SAHM and love it, we have really fun busy and happy days together and I can't quite imagine stopping now! My kids are really well behaved in general, the usual fighting over toys a bit but they mostly love playing together. But I'm also an introvert, not chronically so, but by the end of the day when bathtime's running late and there's a lot of screaming and naked jumping on beds, I just need a sit down in a quiet room with a cup of tea and NOBODY TALKING AT ME for about 20 mins. Then I'm human again... I'm also not the most outgoing person, I love my small group of mum friends but I'm a bit wary of large noisy groups, and am rubbish at remembering names so am constantly having awkward conversations with mums I once met somewhere and then bump into on the high street.
I'd love some thoughts from anyone similar with 3+ kids. Is life with 3 complete noisy chaos that would send an introvert into a downward spiral? Is it tricky later on to juggle so many activities, friends and parties? How about 3 teenagers (eek...)? Obviously giving my current children the best possible life is the priority - though my DD keeps asking for a new baby so she would at least be happy for now I'm just mulling it over after a particularly busy week of DH being away and DS being ill.There are other things to consider too, but having a mum who can cope would be pretty vital. Thanks!
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H0neyBee · 16/04/2016 20:54
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