Feeling very low. My DS comes as obese when i calculate his BMI so i try every weekend to get us out for a walk to the park and it is a struggle. I just spent some 20 min offerring all neighbouring parks (lakes, playgrounds, animal farms) to be told he is borred of them all. He then says lets go somewhere new. Ok, so i go online to google what else is out there and there's places where i will be spending ~£25 just to get in. Which i cant really justify at the moment. So i go back to trying to persuade him to go out somewhere free. No luck. And i just lost it then. Shouted at him that as far as im concerned he can spend whole day in front if tv to which i was told 'i dont care'. Sent him up to his room to which he went calling me 'stupid mum'
Had a go at DP. He suffers with hayfever so doesnt want to go but quite frankly he is not a sporty type so it feels like a handy excuse. People have hayfever and still manage to go out with kids, right?..
I feel like im banging my head against the wall. DS is constantly asking for food which i try to limit to then find out that DH gave him a milkshake/toast after he already had loads. I feel like im fucking alone in this trying to manage his weight! So i slammed the door and left - DS in his room and upset DH as he feels im acting like it's all his fault.
I dont know how to manage this. How do i make DS exercie more?... I feel shit and guilty because my child is overweight despite my best efforts. He's acting like a spoilt brat, im sure lots of kids would be excited to go to places while he just doesnt want to and all is 'boring'.
He is 6.5 btw...:((
Maybe i should just stop pushing with going out and just let him stay home with tv/computer... :((
Any words of wisdom?...
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Lost it - struggle to get DS to go out
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ApproachingATunnel · 10/04/2016 11:38
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