I have a 2 week old baby and an older ds who has just turned 2. My dh is back at work tomorrow after paternity leave and I'm really worried about doing bedtime on my own.
I've done a few practice runs during the week but my problem is that ds1 still needs me to sit in his room with him until he falls asleep and evenings are ds2's cluster feeding/grumpy time. So ds1 can't get to sleep because ds2 is crying and fussing so much.
I've tried using a sling, using a dummy and swaddling to keep ds2 quiet and none of them work. Have also tried doing a big feed and putting baby down to sleep right before I start the bedtime routine but he still woke up demanding to be fed at his usual time just as ds1 was settling down to go to sleep . Can't really move ds1's bedtime any earlier and I don't think it would be much help anyway. No friends or family nearby who can really help.
Is there an obvious solution to this that I'm missing? How does everyone else cope?
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Bedtime routine for toddler and newborn?
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Trinpy · 08/04/2016 20:54
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