Hello,
I'm a lone parent with a 7 week old beautiful DD. Had a rotten situation at 8 days old where I was rushed into hospital by ambulance with a post labour infection and was away from DD for a night on the critical ward.. She joined me after that on the postnatal ward.
Since then she has stayed with my Mum (we are very close and sharing these early weeks every day, Mum more or less lives at my home for now) once to give me a break and help me recover from illness as I couldn't switch off and sleep with her here. I had lots of updates and pictures sent by text...
It was a really glum time but I banked a 12 hour sleep.... Which in my mind means it's better for DD to have a fresh Mum rather than a totally broken one... Hmmm I'm on the fence though with guilt around this- I've even asked Mum not to tell other family members about it.
Be great to hear similar experiences around this for me to gage whether my thoughts are healthy on the subject - mothers guilt hurts!!
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What age did you leave your child overnight for the first time?
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Newmamatobe · 31/03/2016 23:44
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