Hi I have 2 children aged 10 and 6, I have been debating a third for about 3 years now!! I literally feel like I'm losing my mind with this decision.
I go from 100% yes defiantly to 100% no daily!!
I feel like sticking with 2 is the easy option. My 2 are going in to the older phase, they are both at school full time. Life seems a breeze (most of the time) so why won't the nagging feeling for a third go away.
When I first started feeling like this I thought it was a broody phase but I just can't stop thinking about it.
I then think if I'm driving myself so mad then I obviously want one but then I panic... Pregnancy, morning sickness, the newborn stages getting up in the night, a screaming baby, a tantrum toddler! Do I really want to go through all that again.
My oh is happy ether way so not very helpful with the decision.
I worry my 2 would feel left out, I worry about holidays, days out etc everything seems harder with 3.
But the thought of not having another makes be well up. The thought of never going through it all again. : (
How did you decide? What did u decide?
I feel like I spent 90% of my time thinking about it. I'm 34 now and can hear the clock ticking, my kids are getting older, age gaps getting bigger
Also most of my friends have a baby or toddler and I get so broody every time and think I want that again. It doesn't help with my decision seeing all these lovely babies.
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How did you decide to have a third child or to stop at 2?
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Kayleighann · 19/03/2016 16:24
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